Under 10 is the year a lot of grassroots teams quietly grow up. The kids stop chasing the ball in a swarm and start holding a shape, sort of. They get quicker, more competitive, and a bit more aware of the score than you would like and the season my lot went through this age was the one where I learned to watch different things on a Sunday. Here is what I actually look for now, and what I have stopped worrying about.

The ball still comes first

At this age the games are small sided, seven a side for now, though the FA's format changes are shifting the ages around from 2026/27. Small sided is the gift here. Every kid gets far more touches than they ever would on a big pitch, so the first thing I watch is who is getting on the ball at all. Some players are everywhere and some go a full half without a meaningful touch. That second group is the one I plan my week around. It is rarely about ability. It is usually about confidence, position, or just nobody passing to them.

Watch first touch, not goals

Goals are loud and they are also a bit of a lie at Under 10. One quick kid can score four and tell you almost nothing about how the team is developing. So I try to watch the moment before the moment. Does the ball stick under a player's foot or bounce three yards away every time it arrives? A clean first touch is the single skill that opens up everything else at this age, and it is the thing you can see improving week to week if you keep your eyes on it instead of the scoreline.

If you want a record of this that survives past the weekend, jot it down straight after the game while it is fresh. I keep short notes on each player and let the app turn the bones of a game into a tidy match report so I am not relying on memory in May to tell me what happened in October.

Who wants it when it is not going well

Any kid will take the ball when the team is two up and cruising. The ones worth noting are the ones who still ask for it when you are losing and it is cold and the pitch is a bog. That is not a talent thing, it is a character thing, and Under 10 is about the first age you can really see it. I make a point of telling those players I noticed, because at this age a quiet word about effort does more than any drill.

Decisions start to matter

Younger than this and football is mostly instinct. Around Under 10 the better moments start to look like choices. A player who heads up before the ball arrives, picks the simple pass instead of the hero ball, or stays in a space rather than chasing. You cannot drill decision making by shouting the decision from the touchline, which is the trap most of us fall into. You build it by giving them games in training with real choices and then mostly keeping quiet. Watch for the kid who is starting to think a pass ahead. That is the development you are actually after.

What the kids hear from the sideline

This one is about watching the adults, not the kids. At Under 10 the volume from parents tends to creep up because the games get more competitive. I spend a bit of each game listening to what my players are actually hearing. Constant instruction from three directions turns a thinking kid into a kid who just looks for the nearest grown up to tell them what to do. A calm sideline is a coaching tool. If you only fix one thing this season, a quiet word with the parents about cheering effort rather than barking moves will do more for your team than most training plans.

What I have stopped looking for

I no longer care much about results, league position, or who the early physical standout is. The fast, strong kid at Under 10 is often just the one who hit puberty first, and the gap usually closes. I have stopped trying to fix everyone in one go too. Pick one thing a player can get better at, tell them, and look for it the next week. Spread yourself across eleven problems and you fix none of them. Narrow your focus and the whole team moves.

Keep a record, not only a memory

The thing that pulls all of this together is writing it down. A season of short, honest notes on who played where, who wanted the ball, and what each kid is working on becomes the most useful coaching document you own. It is how you spot the quiet player who has improved more than the loud one, and it is how you have a real answer when a parent asks how their child is getting on. That is most of what the coaching tools and the training side of Trac are built to make easy, because the watching is the hard part and the writing down should not be.

Coach Under 10 for a season with your eyes on the right things and you will end it with a group that can keep the ball, make a decision, and still want it when they are losing. That beats a trophy you barely remember by Christmas.